FAQs
Counselling and psychotherapy are types of talking therapy* in which you can explore
your feelings, emotions, and thoughts in a non-judgemental, safe, and confidential
environment. Counselling can offer you that space for a shorter period of time, whilst
psychotherapy will most definitely take place over a longer period of time. The latter
tends to focus on deep rooted difficulties and the impact of past experiences on who
we are, which takes time to uncover and explore.
Healing, change, recovery - these are all things that you can achieve through talking
therapies. Whilst your therapist may not be able to give you direct advice, they can
support you in finding out what feels right for you, in a safe manner, at your pace. In
counselling and psychotherapy, we can begin to observe ourselves through someone
else's lens - a lens much clearer than ours. This can bring reassurance, and a huge sense
of hope.
My aim is to work collaboratively with you, to identify what is a stressor for you and
how we can enrich your wellbeing, given your unique life circumstances. My training
allows me to provide both counselling and/or psychotherapy.
The type of counselling I offer is called "Person-Centred Therapy", which allows me
to work from a caring and non-judgemental place. Briefly explained, this form of
therapy is based on the belief that everyone is capable of growth if they are in the
right environment.
I use an integrative approach in my work with clients, which means that I can also
bring techniques from modalities I have trained in, to tailor our work for your unique
experiences. On the way we may also incorporate techniques and exercises that focus on
your strengths, self-care, values, and self-compassion.
For more information on my professional background and experience, you can follow this link, or feel free to contact me, and book an initial consultation. I am happy to answer questions to the best of my ability.
During our first session we will use the space to find out what brings you to therapy.
Depending on what is going on for you, we may identify together
areas you wish to work on, which will be reviewed throughout our work together.
Above all, I want you to be in control of your growth.
There are times we need to talk things through and sometimes a therapeutic space
can be just what we need to overcome the difficulties we face, to feel heard, validated & share
how we feel with someone who is able and willing to sit with us in that vulnerable space.
I work from a genuine and caring place, and often bring elements of
psychoeducation. This process aims to help your understanding of all those bits of
you that make you who you are. In my practice so far, this has been a key element to
help my clients to make sense of their feelings and experiences. This allowed them
to create a calmer and more enjoyable experience for themselves.
That being said, the counselling sessions are guided by what brings you to therapy
and we will work together to explore what is happening for you at your pace.
Counselling sessions usually last 50 minutes each and may take place weekly or
fortnightly. There is no obligation for you to continue our work if you feel I am not the
right counsellor for you, or if you feel that you wish to take a break from self-
exploration.
The number of sessions you will have depends on what you wish to explore. Some
people find that a few sessions can provide them with enough insight to return to their
daily life activities, with a different mindset. Others find it more difficult and need a bit
more time to begin to trust their counsellor.
We often find it difficult to trust others, once we've experienced a loss (of a loved one,
of our old selves, of something very dear to us). We also may find it difficult to let
others in, once we experienced a traumatic event - this could seem insignificant to
others, and yet it has tremendous implications on our wellbeing. We all experience
sadness, loss, trauma, happiness, joy - everything - in our own way.
As your counsellor, I endeavour to be there for you, to provide a safe space where you
can begin to build that trust and discover yourself. Whichever option resonates with
you, feel free to contact me, to discuss your circumstances.
Sometimes, finding the right counsellor for you, a person who will "just get it", may
take some time. Talking to a stranger may also feel intimidating (or even terrifying) at
first. I want you to rest assured this is something I am very much aware of, having
supported hundreds of clients in single sessions of therapy.
My aim is for you to feel comfortable to ask any questions about the process of
therapy and express how you feel about your sessions or your progress. In my work
so far, I noticed that once clients found a counsellor whom they feel comfortable to
share their story with, this allowed them to feel safe in exploring their feelings.
You might feel that you're not even sure where to begin. Perhaps you are longing for
a change and don't know how to go about it. My aim is to find all these answers with
you - to enable you to look back to where you began this journey and think "I've
come so far!".
If you feel that you are experiencing a mental health crisis where are concerned about your own safety or someone else's, please see Emergency Contact.
Counselling is a type of talking therapy that can support you when you are not in
immediate danger to yourself or to/from others.
Each counselling session is confidential, between yourself and your counsellor. The
only instance in which this confidentiality will be breached is if:
- Your safety or someone else's is at immediate risk;
- The safety of Children/Young Adults/ Vulnerable Adults is at risk, in accordance with
Safeguarding Policies;
- Something mentioned in the sessions breaches The Terrorism Act (2006) or Drug
Trafficking Act (1994)
In each of these instances your counsellor will try to discuss breaching confidentiality
with you prior to this occurring.
I also keep regular notes of our sessions, to keep track of our work together. However,
these will not have your contact details, or any identifiable information attached to
them. They are also securely kept in accordance with GDPR (General Data Protection
Regulation) Act (2018). Counsellors sometimes use their notes for purposes of case
work evaluation with their supervisor. This is to ensure your work with them is safe
Again, these notes will not contain any identifiable information.
Online Video & Telephone Counselling Sessions can be booked between 8AM - 6PM on
Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday.
Face-to-face Counselling Sessions can only be booked between 8AM - 4PM on Friday and will take place
at The Wellbeing Place, Manchester, M21 0AE. This location is accessible by public transport. Free parking is available nearby (2 hrs max.)
Please note, the above counselling space does not have disabled access as the counselling room is located on the 2nd Floor.